Next year, Hashem willing, our children will be in Orthodox day schools. This is a requirement for most converts because we may not be able to teach our children everything they need to know when it comes to Judaism. Most day schools are simply private schools that follow a “dual curriculum.” Students spend roughly half their day on secular studies, which is all the stuff that public school children study and then the other half is spent on Judaic studies, where they work heavily on learning to read and understand Hebrew as well as learning all that they need to know to live an Orthodox Jewish life.
Our children were in day school when we lived in Florida, but they’ve now been out 5 years here in Alaska, so we have a LOT of catching up to do to smooth their transition back in. I’m fairly sure that no matter how hard we work now, there’s going to be some bumps when they move back into that environment, particularly for our son who will be starting Yeshiva (high school boy’s school). Another challenge is that we live where we live, a hour behind even Pacific time and far from any large Jewish community, so resources are a challenge to find.
But…Alaskans are resourceful by nature, so resources I have found.
An average day for us begins like anyone else’s. We go to work and the children go to public school. After a full day of public school, they come home and begin their homework from that day. When I come home, I move from being a network engineer to being a homeschooling teacher. If I’m very lucky, I have a cup of tea to soften that change! After I’ve checked in with the kids on their secular homework, I make us some dinner and we all eat, then it’s on to Judaic studies. I use a mix of different things. The basics is covered by an online program for Jewish homeschoolers called Melamed Academy. We also looked at Nigri International Jewish Online School and really liked their program, but it didn’t work out for our timezone. Melamed Academy is mostly self-study, so it can be done at any time, so that’s what we went with.
I supplement with materials from chinuch.org. It’s primarily a website in which Jewish educators share materials, but anyone can create an account and download educational materials for free. I find extra vocabulary lists, study sheets, and parsha study sheets there. In addition, high on my mind is that my son will need to prepare for Gemara study. To that end, he has an additional study session weekly with his Zaide. I found study guides at Boniyach.com for them to try out. They have programs for boys from elementary school on that help ease them into Mishnah and then Gemara study and I’m hopeful that they will be helpful in their studies. My daughter also spends a few hours every Sunday at our local Chabad House’s Hebrew school.
We try to wrap all this up by 9pm at night so that everyone can get to bed and sleep since my day begins at 4:30am, when I get up to get ready for work at 6am.
I’m very proud of the way the kids have adjusted to this schedule and their enthusiasm for their Judaic studies. They also seem to work through their secular homework quicker because they are eager to move on to their other lessons. I’m very fortunate that they’re both eager learners, even if it means I have to work to keep up! We’re at a holiday lull in Judaic studies, but I’m using the time to organize materials for after the holidays when we begin the Torah over again. I often learn alongside the children, having to study myself to help teach them.
Will it be enough to ease the transition? I’m pretty sure there will still be some big gaps for both of them and we’ll have to help them handle being behind. Both of them are very good students at school and won’t be used to being the kid who is behind, which is more what I worry about than them catching up. We talk about not comparing themselves to others and also focusing on how far they have come and how proud we are of them.
I love how our days are full of Torah, even if it means my nights are sometimes a bit too short and I definitely look forward to my Shabbos shluf (nap)!